Question of the Day~

You know what I don't get? Why do girls...and maybe boys....why do they hate it when someone else wears the same thing as them?....I mean....for example...
It's prom time. Nana and Mitsuko are friends and go dress shopping. Mitsuko gets a blue mermaid strapless dress. Nana can't find any good dresses at Towncenter Mall, so she goes to Perimeter Mall a week later to get a dress. She finds THE DRESS...THE PERFECT DARK BLUE HALTER MERMAID DRESS THAT SHE WAS DYING TO WEAR SINCE LAST PROM. and for the record....both Mitsuko and Nana wanted to get a mermaid dress...Nana told Mitsuko way before shopping that she wanted to get a dark blue or silver dress either mermaid or with a pretty back....and Mitsuko showed Nana a picture of a dress that she wanted which was of a more silky and cotton-y material...u know the kind that tall girls look best in?....When Nana went pre-prom shopping, she found a really pretty dress with a really pretty back, but she couldn't buy it at that moment due to circumstances. She went the next week to Dillards and found two pretty back dresses that she also liked to back of, but did not fully love. She went to Macy's the next day and found the prettiest mermaid dresses everrrrrrrr....the dark blue halter one...and the 2nd place silver one.....the mermaid dresses that she found at Dillards all had some type of issue with them....the ones at Macy's were a much better quality....basically...Nana knew that she wanted a mermaid dress...but she was prepaired to settle for less....so she wanted to get the blue mermaid dress....but she knew Mitsuko had a very similar dress....so she called Mitsuko to ask her what she thought about the situation....and Mitsuko basically flips out and refuses to let Nana get the mermaid dress....which was....THE DRESS...if ya know what i mean....the dress Nana dreamed of wearing....sigh.....so Nana gets the silver mermaid dress instead....

so yeah that's the story
basically
I don't understand what the big deal is....the dresses aren't exactly the same....the color and style are the same....but hers is strapless and one Nana found is halter....also, the one Nana found could be strapless and would not show the armpit fatT-T...it was PERFECT.....sigh....i'm goina be sad about this for a long time.....i don't know if i can easily get over it.....

but yeah....so Nana asked her good friend Hachi why it's such a bad thing...and Hachi says it's cause girls think: "This is my night and this is my dress and you're stealing the spotlight away from me...why are you copying me? why couldn't you get another dress?"
But seriously....how immature is that?...It's not like Mitsuko designed or made the dress.....there is more than one dress for sale for a reason....that dress doesn't belong solely to her....all other girls have every right and privilege to wear that dress....it's not even the same dress! She can't "own" it. The only reason I can think of for Mitsuko not wanting Nana to get the dress is because she's afraid Nana will look so much better in it....which is stupid....and Impossible because MItsuko is really the prettiest girl ever....and Mitsuko should have no inferiority complex. I dunno....i need some serious enlightenment cause I'm goina be pretty sad about this for a while....